Misha

Hello, I’m Misha, and I am a 25 soon to be 26 year old Asexual Transfem with mental health issues (A mixture of generalized anxiety and being on the spectrum, as well as some light trauma.) who has moved to Victoria right before Covid. It may have taken a while but I am finally getting ready to move out of my former place.

Finances: Currently I am living entirely off of my Person’s With Disability government income (approximately 1,358 CAD.). However I will be looking for accessible employment as soon as possible. I’ll be trying the at home methods at first as I don’t handle stressful environments all too well, but if necessary I will resort to looking around.

Requirements and Strong Preferences: Limited to no Drugs, Alcohol, and so on. I am fine if others do so especially if it’s needed, as long as it does not involve coercing me. I like to have as firm a grasp on my own mind and body as possible. Peaceful environments, noise levels are not exactly an issue for me as long as the people around me remain capable of enjoying themselves. Honest and open communication, I obviously am not a mind reader and the feeling of upsetting someone or not knowing how to help is awful. I do not mind if a person is blunt or direct, if anything I value and appreciate it. I’ve always found that communication is key as well as a two way street. A Clean and Stable environment, I do not mind rules, sleeping habits, pets, or really much else as long as it’s properly communicated to me beforehand.

Personality: Typically the people who get to know me have previously described me as “Extremely Polite”, “Sweet”, “Sensitive”, “Caring”, “A Unicorn” and so on. As for myself I at least like to believe I am just an overall incredibly curious person who loves to learn and experience new things. I can’t really handle people being upset or in pain around me so I will often worry about how others are doing. I also hate having myself be considered any form of intrusive, upsetting, or annoying and have been known to need to be assured and convinced to so much as even sit on the coach when visiting a friend for the first time. Purely due to not wanting to upset them by touching anything. I am trying my best to speed up the involved adjustment process however.

My favorite hobbies thus far have been reading, animations, comics, video games of the RPG variety, tabletop games, and Pen and Paper Roleplaying (most commonly known as dungeons and dragons). More or less anything that involves an interesting and unique story and method of portraying it is something I love.

Favorite activities include: social behavioral analysis of myself and others, philosophy, being a light form of mischievous, and talking with friends online. The interests I would like to pursue include: Programming, Writing, Engineering, Physics, Psychology, Sociology, Arts and Crafts, Music, and much more. Understanding the world around me has always been a fascinating subject.

Likes and Dislikes: Passion, Motivation, Creativity, and just generally having the people around me enjoying their lives and doing what they want fills me with joy. I also like supporting others do the things they want to achieve whenever possible. Eccentric individuals, the more unique an individual seems the more interested I become in getting to know them.

Most hyped up topics I struggle to find much interest in. Large crowds tend to make me nervous and so I typically prefer small groups.

Struggles: Swearing, I have a great difficulty in speaking terms that I deem rude or overly inappropriate around others. Being isolated, I like being at least somewhat aware of my surroundings, and I don’t deal well with isolation and will be more likely to take care of others than myself. I won’t try to control or badger with questions. I simply like knowing why a noise or smell is occurring nearby. “Inappropriate” conversations: I have not greatly been exposed to matters of sexual and romantic preference and such jokes and topics are more likely to put me a little on edge though they do not upset me.